"There is no app or video game that can replace interactions with other human beings." Relating to others, eye contact, conversation, empathy, getting along with others -- these are key characteristics that we all need in order to function effectively with others in our world.
BUT -- "The average American child and teenager spends 53 hours a week with media and technology, far more time in front of screens than interacting with parents or people." That's a full time job plus some overtime! And what is the payout? Entitlement, low attention span and lack of patience are all results of excessive screen time.
The book makes some obvious screen-related recommendations like "no more than 2 hours a day of screen time"and then goes on to explain things such as: ways to encourage creative play (get your kids a cardboard box!) and ways to increase a love of reading.
"Growing Up Social" highlights five A+ skills that are learned abilities that will instill character in your child (and in yourself):
Show Affection, Appreciate others, deal with Anger,
learn to Apologize and pay Attention
"Bonus Features" throughout the book include a Screen Time Family Pledge that will be an amazing springboard for family discussions. There is also a quiz that can help you identify whether or not your child has too much screen time based on his/her behaviours. The book even has a chapter that focuses on your own screen time and highlights the idea that we should model appropriate use of screen time for our children.
Anyone who has enjoyed Gary Chapman's "The 5 Love Languages" will appreciate this book by Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane. You'll find this book inspiring and encouraging!
Win it: One Sowing Dandelion Seeds reader will win a copy of the book "Growing Up Social".
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~❀~ Chelsey ~❀~
a Rafflecopter giveaway
"Disclosure (in accordance with the FTC’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising”): Many thanks to Propeller Consulting, LLC for providing this prize for the giveaway. Choice of winners and opinions are 100% my own and NOT influenced by monetary compensation. I did receive a sample of the product in exchange for this review and post. Only one entrant per mailing address, per giveaway. If you have won the same prize on another blog, you are not eligible to win it again. Winner is subject to eligibility verification.”
~❀~ Chelsey ~❀~
Our whole family struggles with too much screen time. As a stay at home mom to two three yr olds I find that when they wind down I wind down on the computer and when the teenagers come home from school they are online catching up with friends.
ReplyDeleteAnger for the younger ones and Attention for the rest of us.
ReplyDeleteI catch myself on my phone to much entering giveaways. I live by myself. Ive gotten better though. I only do it at home, not when I go visit my family. Thank you for the chance :)
ReplyDeleteId have to sat anger & attention.
ReplyDeleteGetting my kids' attention is my biggest struggle. I will be talking and my daughter is looking down at her phone or computer with ear buds in her ears and not hearing a word I said.
ReplyDeleteSherri J
My family and I need to work on appreciating others and paying more attention.
ReplyDeleteSherri J
My kids are on their laptops/phones all the time but so am I with my laptop so I'm not the best role model. But I do try to walk away.
ReplyDeleteI think anger and attention would be what I need to work on.
ReplyDeleteThey don't talk because they are like zombies staring at the screen. It drives me crazy.
ReplyDeleteI think we need to work on the Appreciate others skill.
ReplyDeleteWe struggle because it's more normalized in school now.
ReplyDeletePutting them down while interacting with others!
ReplyDeleteWe struggle because its "normal" and its hard to focus on that. We would like to focus on paying attention and being in the moment with them!
ReplyDeleteWe watch a little too much Curious George
ReplyDeleteI have to set firm limits or they will park in front of a screen for days.
ReplyDeleteLimiting screen time can be a challenge!
ReplyDeleteNancy
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Appreciate others is one skill we all could improve on!
ReplyDeleteNancy
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Mine is my kids watching shows I don't want them to see sometimes, teennick makes my daughter catty! Also watching and not listening
ReplyDeletesunniewoodyplus2 atmsn.com
It is so easy to get into the habit of always multi-tasking...
ReplyDeleteGood point! They say it's better to focus fully on one thing at a time...
ReplyDeleteWe wan to have less screen time.
ReplyDeleteMy biggest struggle is that they always try to hide what they are typing on the screens.
ReplyDeleteMy biggest issue is setting time limits and holding myself accountable to the amount of screen time!
ReplyDeleteShowing appreciation is one I could work on more within our family. When I really focus on it I see the difference in how our family reacts to one another.
ReplyDeleteThat is so true!
DeleteIt's mostly them messing with and unplugging them.. nothing like addicted to electronics.
ReplyDeleteAppreciate others.
ReplyDeleteToo much of it- need personal interaction
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